Relationship Attraction: Looks Are Not Everything
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
These are the results from a survey taken by a popular dating site.
Choose the most important aspects of a lover:
1. Appearance 11%
2. Personality 30%
3. Body 5%
4. Sense of Humor 14%
5. Eyes 10%
6. Popularity 0%
7. Smile 12%
8. Hair 7%
9. Education 7%
10. Career 3%
So you see, personality rated top, with none of the others even getting close!
What does this mean for a person? What does it say about two people dating? This says that personality, regardless of what end of the fence you are on, is a desireable trait from either person’s point of view.
Now, ‘Looks’ is in many cases seen as an external personification of a person. But as I have explained, ‘Personality’ was rated at the top. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth, and being authentic are the characteristics that are vastly more important than physical appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get halted before we begin. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Having an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move away from old patterns much faster.
What are characteristics of personality? Being confident. Self-confidence to be precise. The ability of relaxing, enjoying, and communicating in relaxed and intense subjects. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not hard to understand.
What are inherent traits of being self-confident?
1. Knowing what you want.
2. Being assured of yourself. Being sure that what you desire is within your reach.
3. Esteem. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.
4. Poise. In most circumstances you keep non-plussed.
What I’m getting at is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearances. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative potential!
A lot of people I’ve met, whether they’re getting back into the dating scene, or just considering it get halted with forces of the game. “I am no longer a spring chicken.” “I can’t compete with the attractive people.” “The singles scene is so superficial.”
That kind of internal monologue will never get you back out into the game successfully. Feeling confident, having an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile and acting kindly, are the best traits to hold to. Realize that you don’t have to do the singles thing. You can find Mr. or Ms. Right in a department store, at church, on a run, anywhere. Do not hold yourself by what others are saying.
Tags: coach, law of attraction, love, relationships
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