Being a good flirt has as much to do with not doing the incorrect things as it is doing with doing the correct things. Flirting is difficult because there’s such a fine line between being successful and crashing and burning. It’s so simple to do everything right, but then ruin your progress by making one of the all too common mistakes below.
One ) Don’t be crude
If you make apparent and nasty sexual innuendoes, you are not being a turn on, you are being a pervert unless you are a girl then it’s ok .
Two ) Don’t ignore body language
Over 65% of communication is non-verbal. If you aren’t actively taking a look at the way their body is shifting or what the person’s eyes are saying , you are going to miss lots of clear signs that say I am into you, keep talking or You’re a freak, and I don’t want you around a second longer.
Three ) Avoid being brazenly slick
It’s fine to act cool, but don’t go mad. You won’t seem like yourself and that’s not attractive.
Four ) Do not be mad
Flirting should make your target feel sexy and wanted, not entertained. You want to be perceived in a sexual way not as the funny girl or guy.
Five ) Do not be unduly cute
If you act too lovable unsexy , you will be seen as an innocent and nice person. That is’s great if you wish to be just a mate, but not for anything more.
Six ) Cut your losses if it’s's obvious your actions aren’t appreciated
If your flirtations are obviously visible and you are not being flirted with back, it is time to pack it up and move on .
Seven ) Don’t show fear
Insecurity is known as a very not attractive sign of weakness. If you want to get your target to take you seriously, you have got to hide your nerves. This suggests no stammering, fidgeting, wandering eyes off into the distance , wavering voice, for example.
Eight ) Avoid being very sensitive feely unless you’re a girl
This is specifically targeted at the blokes. It is not appropriate to grope or touch a woman unless you know she loves you. If you aren’t certain that she’s's into you, it’s ok to gently touch her shoulder or graze her arm but that is’s it! Do not put your arm around her waist or continually touch her shoulder or body. This will freak her out and make her feel extraordinarily uncomfortable around you.
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