I really feel for any guy that’s given the task to pick jewellery out for his loved one. Having just gone thru the process I know how complicated it is to pick just the right style, the best design, and as for the 4 C’s (color, carat, clarity and cut) wow, it’s a completely new sphere of terms!
Getting engaged is an incredibly exciting time for any one, but their is so much custom, so many things to consider. Come on, how far do you go? Do you approach the father of the bride first? Do you choose the engagement ring or wait and do it together? There’s a blending of customs and roles that just create rather more confusion in the entire process.
All said and done it’s about marriage and spending your life together, but the engagement ring is an enormous deal. Blokes do not get trained in this stuff. I never had the benefit of studying gemology at college, or in fact, customs and traditions of wedding. Faced with the choice of popping the question brought with it waves of counsel from my folks, chums, even co-workers not to mention shop assistants!
Anyway, so I have made a decision to pop the big question and I am going to be bold, I am going to buy the engagement ring without checking with my future bride. After all, how hard could it be … it’s a ring.
Sure this can spell a doomed wedding, I almost certainly should have stuck with buying the tiara rather than a ring, but with enormous naivety I have embarked on the retail journey. Visiting jewellers and retailers all enthused to serve and suggest why their jewellery is miles better than the following one. But having trundled thru store after store I found it looked more the same.
Until I walked into a local antique dealer – this was not yet another gold ring with a diamond, this was a collectible, something that would actually improve with age, who’d have thought I could pick an antique engagement ring. A stroke of genius! Well, that and some definitely fantastic shop assistants.
Yes, she is now my spouse and, in fact , we already have kids. The antique ring is still a valued treasure and truly reflected the uniqueness of my wife.
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