We all agree that guys are different from girls and that they often act in a manner that confuses girls. Most girls wonder about what do guys like in girls so that they can do what works to get a guy. Your personality comes through in various ways that guys like and that triggers attraction and these include
1. Looking good! Cast off the ill-fitting clothes and the over plucked eye brows that give you a permanently surprised look. Learn what brings out your best features and put that on and get assistance from acquaintances, families or image consultants to help you pep up your image.
2. Having good manners! Are you content in sharing peoples attention with other people? Or must you be the centre of attraction? Are you hateful, loud and attention seeking? Must you have upheaval around you in order to feel good about yourself?
3. Treating him well! But not in that fawning unreal treatment like he is your new found god. Very few people can respect, let alone like, a person who worship’s at their feet. Instead be nice but ambiguous so that you convey your respect for him and for yourself.
4. Not being overly sensitive! Relax! everything said is not a personal hit on you! We don’t want to be around anyone who is always hurt every harmless remark and who just can’t seem to get their emotions in check.
5. Receiving kind words graciously! But do not scout about for them as guys feel compelled to be economical with the truth not to hurt the feelings of a girl who fishes. The famous “Does my bum look big in this?”Comes to mind…what is a pleasant guy expected to say when your bum does look big in it? If he compliments you accept the compliment in the spirit in which it was given. Don’t get puffed up about it but receive the compliment and move on. Do not discount it or try to explain it away. Guys like girls whose self esteem is high enough so they can accept admiring comments graciously!
6. Avoid striving to manage him! Yes you do not like some of his habits etc but we are all grown up and do not need anyone telling us what to do, thank you very much!
7. Straight talk! Guys are not good at doing many things at the same time and in concentrating on a long winded conversation so they simply tune you off or get really thwarted trying to listen. Say what you mean and with as few words as possible so that you don’t lose him. Save the roundabout niceties for your girls who can follow and get into such details.
8. Not whining! Life could have been hard people can be maddeningbut whining about it will not endear you to anyone. Explore other ways of venting your irritations instead of letting them loose on him! If you feel that life does not give you any breaks…do you think that telling him that frequently will make him fond of you?
9. Respecting others! Backstabbing and back biting others as well as putting them down will not make him fond of you to him! Your plan may be to exalt yourself in his eyes by making the competition look bad but you will come off as self obsessed, spiteful and vindictive…all unpleasant qualities.
10. Being right always! Admitting that you are wrong when you are wrong is not a flaw it shows your strength as a person. This does not mean that you give in even when you are right but it does mean that you should have enough self confidence to admit when you are wrong.
11. Being untruthful! Do you tell lies to build yourself in the eyes of other people as your live seems boring? The problem with lies is that you have to remember all the previous lies and to keep on that path. A difficult task and if you attract a guy it’s not really you that he likes but the ‘pretend’ you. Lies are a poor base for any lasting relationship as they have a way of coming out to bite you!
12. Not holding resentfullness. Are you able to let go of an issue once you have sorted it out or are you of the “do not forgive or forget” breed of people who become gradually more bitter the longer they live?
If these qualities can become a part of you then you will have no problem finding the right guy!